tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post8934080301323978062..comments2023-08-04T08:35:45.197-07:00Comments on Project 6x6: People and conflicts //////////// Ljudi i konfliktisashkonelahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15729125105087740825noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-12599114996170771422012-11-04T07:30:01.442-08:002012-11-04T07:30:01.442-08:00Definitely it`s because of different personalities...Definitely it`s because of different personalities, or at elast different attitudes. It`s just that I hate when it`s about someone you hang out with, and you really need a feedback from him/her about something, and he/she is just mute. Sometimes it`s good to have different opinions - it`s good for growth of both people!sashkonelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15729125105087740825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-52144506457508505582012-11-04T07:14:33.102-08:002012-11-04T07:14:33.102-08:00I believe that Conflicts occur mainly because we h...I believe that Conflicts occur mainly because we have different personalities. Although, I also agree with you that the tone of the voice and how we present a particular point of view also matters. But the first one matters most, according to me. It think that it is better to gauge/understand the temperament/personality type of the person first and then talk with him in a way that suits his understanding capacity the most...I know it is a difficult task...why should we take the pain...but it is worth it...Another way is to simply be silent and be a listener...this way...we can avoid conflicts...<br />Yet the fun goes away if we are afraid to speak -fearing conflict each time we open our mouth...But at the end, I have noticed that similar thinking people seldom have conflicts in communication..it happens mostly when we converse with different personality types...maybe that's why we choose our friends and stick to them and avoid people who are not like minded...Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17363854783134050594noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-8135985230333053922012-11-01T14:56:56.128-07:002012-11-01T14:56:56.128-07:00Nego sta :)Nego sta :)Tatjana Dmitrovic Drljanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09712847044153760016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-9076261808218947392012-10-31T19:03:16.656-07:002012-10-31T19:03:16.656-07:00Hello Aleksandra! Thanks for joining Nice to Meet ...Hello Aleksandra! Thanks for joining Nice to Meet You {GFC Blog Hop}! Hope to see you linking up again next week ;)Mariely Vélezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06814749189352042984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-48705005596163120862012-10-29T01:49:44.057-07:002012-10-29T01:49:44.057-07:00Exactly. Political parties support and for/against...Exactly. Political parties support and for/against gays are the topics I like to avoid,because from the beginning those discussions lead to disaster,and they have no point. Only passion and emotions will get on fire,for no reason....sashkonelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15729125105087740825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-41715693955075080982012-10-29T01:49:07.814-07:002012-10-29T01:49:07.814-07:00Exactly. Political parties support and for/against...Exactly. Political parties support and for/against gays are the topics I like to avoid,because from the beginning those discussions lead to disaster,and they have no point. Only passion and emotions will get on fire,for no reason....sashkonelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15729125105087740825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-32297944204703992392012-10-28T17:20:13.553-07:002012-10-28T17:20:13.553-07:00I suppose that is why i cannot talk about this ele...I suppose that is why i cannot talk about this election in the USA..i am so interested in how people came to their decision on who they are voting for...but they get so angry just thinking about the whole election!! so the weather seems a safe and constant topic instead.momto8https://www.blogger.com/profile/13964950285763339907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-22958182288110697632012-10-28T16:41:45.193-07:002012-10-28T16:41:45.193-07:00This is a good post. I like the pictures too, the...This is a good post. I like the pictures too, the first one made me laugh and the last one is oooooooooooooooooh so true. Tone of voice can really put things off to a wrongs start.<br /><br />mail4roseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17850985344834209198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-66781090534670796662012-10-28T09:25:11.612-07:002012-10-28T09:25:11.612-07:00Tone of voice says so much, and I for one am very ...Tone of voice says so much, and I for one am very in tune with that. Actually make things hard sometimes. Just pinned the ecard about ton above.<br /><br />Thanks for sharing with my NO RULES Weekend Blog Party :)<br /><br />Paula<br />lifeasweknowitbypaula.blogspot.comPaulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04971696334228713576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-57264514713925749502012-10-28T04:05:06.287-07:002012-10-28T04:05:06.287-07:00Tacooo, vatro moja :)Tacooo, vatro moja :)sashkonelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15729125105087740825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-85504880089595457412012-10-28T04:01:17.006-07:002012-10-28T04:01:17.006-07:00Uh koja tema!!Ja sam ta koja puno prica i samo mog...Uh koja tema!!Ja sam ta koja puno prica i samo mogu naci nove teme za komunikaciju.Kod mene nema da cu cutati ili presutiti neko nesto, ja uvek moras sve da "rascistim" jer nikada ne bi imala mira.<br />Znalo mi se desiti tako nekada sa nekim, da neko hoce da bude neutralan i da se pravi lud, kada se desi neki nesporazum i posle toga se klonim takvih ljudi, jer ne razumem zasto je tesko reci svoje misljenja ili stati na neciju stranu.<br />Kod mene se uvek sve mora znati, ja dokle ne isteram pravdu, ne mogu da se smirim i u satnju sam da se prepirem do neiznemoglosti!! :)Tatjana Dmitrovic Drljanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09712847044153760016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-84332176494190903572012-10-28T03:31:02.811-07:002012-10-28T03:31:02.811-07:00Definitivno! Ja takodje nisam za dijalog po bilo k...Definitivno! Ja takodje nisam za dijalog po bilo koju cenu - sa ljudima sa kojima vidis da on nece imati svrhu, bolje je cutati. Ali, kada je u pitanju tema koja se tebe tice, sa ljudima koje poznajes, a ti biras da budes mutav i bez reakcija - e to je vec druga prica :)sashkonelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15729125105087740825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-71621236642718483082012-10-27T14:54:23.528-07:002012-10-27T14:54:23.528-07:00Baš mi je prijalo što naiđoh na ovaj tvoj post.Zan...Baš mi je prijalo što naiđoh na ovaj tvoj post.Zanimljiva mi je tema-ljudska komunikacija,i vrlo često se njome u svojim mislima bavim.<br />Uglavnom se slažem s tvojim mišljenjem.<br />Međutim,primetila sam da se moje mišljenje tokom godina menjalo(sazrevalo).Mnogo je ljudi koji na verbalno-agresivan način žele pošto-poto da nametnu svoje mišljenje(pri tome su ubeđeni da o svemu sve znaju!).Nažalost,takvih je danas sve više,o svemu imaju stav od koga ne odustaju,iako možda postoje argumenti koji bi trebalo da ih pokolebaju...Uglavnom,sa nekim zrelijim godinama ja sam zaključila da je ipak bitno dobro izabrati sagovornika,"namirisati" da li je konfliktan u komunikaciji..pa izbeći dijlog koliko je moguće.Ne,nisam pesimistična,i ne vidim samo sivilo u ljudskim odnosima.Naprotiv,mnogo volim da pričam,a ipak zastupam stav da je nekada-ćutanje zlato.Valjda to ide s godinama,volim da čuvam energiju za pozitivnosti svih oblika.<br />Veliki pozdrav<br />Sandra Pecićhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10541193641917046496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-67086486386968796842012-10-27T14:28:59.604-07:002012-10-27T14:28:59.604-07:00I couldn`t agree more. Non verbal communication is...I couldn`t agree more. Non verbal communication is the most important one, and it`s the most important one to work on. Me myself have sometimes problems with that. However, we are learning every day ;)sashkonelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15729125105087740825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-81049300817963462692012-10-27T13:44:04.591-07:002012-10-27T13:44:04.591-07:00You touch on a very important topic of communicati...You touch on a very important topic of communication here that I think many people fail to realize. Having grown up in a family that communicated very emotionally (yelling and screaming all the time) I had real difficulty in communicating as a young adult. It took many years for me to realize that when trying to communicate, my tone of voice (and even facial expressions), prevented me from helping the other person to understand and see my perspective, whether they agreed with it or not. <br /><br />Tone is such a huge part of communication. Like body language, it is one of the main ways (in my opinion), that we sense the emotion of the person speaking with us. If their tone expresses anger or defensiveness, then we respond by becoming defensive as well, which rarely if ever results in a productive discussion. <br /><br />Thank you so much for linking up with Thirsty for Comments Thursday. I look forward to seeing you visit with us again.Silverfaeriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12458202847624277446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-4993960472094228222012-10-27T11:20:22.222-07:002012-10-27T11:20:22.222-07:00Razumemo se, mali Iv :)Razumemo se, mali Iv :)sashkonelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15729125105087740825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-89931178755681007852012-10-27T11:20:06.842-07:002012-10-27T11:20:06.842-07:00:)
:)<br />sashkonelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15729125105087740825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-16895893791303126342012-10-27T11:07:52.980-07:002012-10-27T11:07:52.980-07:00Ja volim dinamične rasprave u kojima svako stoji n...Ja volim dinamične rasprave u kojima svako stoji na svojoj strani, pa čak i ako se dogodi konflikt u smislu nepodudaranja mišljenja. Ali kada je svaki argument na mestu, kada nema dizanja tona već je sve nekako kao prijateljsko ćaskanje i naravno, kada nema vređanja. Ponekad se desi da čovek promeni stav ako mu suprotna strana na lep način 'otvori oči' svojim argumentima.. volim takve debate, jer me inspirišu i teraju na razmišljanje. A ono što ne voli, jeste svakako kada nekome nešto pričam, a taj samo mutavo ćuti i čeka da završim sa svojim izlaganjem kako bi prešli na neku drugu temu.mali ivhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01835840059952294153noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7855309481496920880.post-72793154047611964642012-10-27T07:20:39.643-07:002012-10-27T07:20:39.643-07:00U POTPUNOSTI SE SLAZEM SA TOBOM :)))U POTPUNOSTI SE SLAZEM SA TOBOM :)))D.C.Accessorizehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12202915182654546618noreply@blogger.com