What I have learned this month

1. Da neke stavove ljudi ne možeš promeniti. To je posebno teško prihvatiti u situacijama u kojima si siguran da si pogrešno i nepravedno optužen. Jedino što onda možeš promeniti je sopstveni stav o celoj situaciji, kao i ponašanje prema toj drugoj osobi.

2. Da svakom dođe trenutak kada prestane imati želju da se svake nedelje provodi, druži i upoznaje nove ljude. I prioritet polako preuzmu vrednosti vezane za porodicu, mir i dom. A opet, postoje i ljudi za koje misliš da se nikad neće smiriti, i koji će uvek želeti da žive "momački/devojački" život. I to je OK.

3. Da i dalje možeš biti tretiran kao neko ko se razume u muziku, čak i ako si jedan od onih koji govore "volim da slušam razne/različite muzičke pravce" (8 tracks link).

4. Da je život suviše kratak da bi smo pričali samo jedan ili dva jezika.

5. Da i hejt i cinizam mogu biti izuzetno privlačni, ako znaju da se doziraju i iskoriste u pravom trneutku.

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English version

1. That some people`s attitudes you can`t change. It`s especially hard to accept that in the situation when you know that you are wrongly accused of something you didn`t do. The only thing you can do than is to change your own attitude towards the situation, or your behaviour towards that person.

2. That everyone comes to a phase in life when he/she stop wanting to hang out with friends every week, but instead gives the priority to the values connected to family, home and peaceful events. And then again, there are people for whom you think that will never stop leading the "bachelor life". And that`s OK.

3. That you can still be treated as someone who know music, even if you say things like "I like listening to all different kinds of music genres" (8tracks link).

4. That life is too short, not to talk a few languages.

5. That cynism is sometimes very attractive, if one knows when and how to use it.